GROWTH MINDSET
Mind set is the only asset that fuels us to work till die. It is only driving force for creation as well as destruction. Mind set plays in two ways, either you will control it and get desired result for your benefit, or it will command you and it can ruin your life and take out all the happiest thing from you.
Mind plays game to those who don’t have the power to control it. Once you execute action according to its will to satisfy it, he will continuously expect same kind pleasure by make you doing thing in the same way that you have done earlier. It will make you as its slave unless until you identify its trick and game.
However if start taking control of our mind and make it work according to our will and instruction it start producing magic for us. Our life become a blessing for us, we become creator of our own life and start doing good for others.
The first paragraph retains pessimistic mindset, and the second paragraph retains growth mindset. It is not that much easy to retain a growth mindset and maintain it because we all are surrounded various personality, various culture, various cast and creed whose upbringing and education about life and mindset is very different.
In this horrible situation it is not expected easily to persuade growth mindset in all aspect of life.
Growth mindset focuses on process and learning instead of only result.
Having a GROWTH MINDSET-Finds a way not an excuse
In our day-to-day transaction we are taking many action consciously or sub consciously. Many a time our choice and decision to take action depends on mindset. Our judgement to assess any person, to analyze facts and figures, to respond any situation are controlled by our mindset.
GROWTH MINDSET is the tool which helps a person to keep going ahead, keep on exploring new way to succeed, pursue of trying alternatives, paying focus to the controllable until reached to success.
We all start the job and act with the hope that we will succeed. But reality is different than hope. We face failures and it is obvious, it happens to everyone.
Many of us pause their journey after facing setback. Here GROWTH MINDSET plays the role, this mindset never rests the action in luck, it take ownership into own solder and bounce back. It forces you to try again by considering the learning the last mistake.
Here GROWTH MINDSET person differs from other one. This mindset carries the mentality of focusing on growth instead of success. The attitude makes a person day by day.
It helps you to get rid of excuses. It helps to acquire required amount of Funds to continue the purpose. It helps to approach each person that is required for making the job happen. It helps to keep on learning new thing.
It helps to focus and keep on going when others lose their hope. Whatever the situation maybe it always strikes your inner soul that it is possible for you and you can do it.It is the only weapon which lives our mind and helps us to change according to the demand of nature.
Focus undivided attention
We all have known the story of Arjun in Mahabharat. We are also inspired by the story. But in reality, to focus is not as simple as we think. It is not that easy stay focused to the task with the existence of ups and downs.
Our surrounding is also changing and behaving on certain way in certain situation. Daily tons of information entered our mind knowingly and unknowingly. We are driven by difference of opinion of our family, friends, mentors & influencers.
Is not it difficult to carry on the personal idea, keep on taking actions and stick to the job. Most of the time our idea out rightly rejected like smashing on the shoes. Any Idea is not great until it is achieved. To convince others about the idea and expect applause is nest to impossible. In this environment to keep focused is really a challenge.
I have said the reality in above passage, but how we can stay focused, Obviously the answer is difficult. But possible. Many of us like person has done it and taken profit out of it.
Laser sharp focus kills the cancer cell. The dedication to a particular task in physical level as well as in mental level build focus, where our mind and acting parts of our body come to one single aim and aligned with the energy to execute the task irrespective the struggle and adversity that came along.
Here mindset plays the role. If you have strongly aligned with your goal and convinced yourself that you are the right person to take care of the job and bear all the potential to compete and get good result, then you will focused and continue to complete.
And the next thing what is to be done to align with the job. To read books, to speak the doers who have done it earlier, to gather knowledge about the background of the task. Many persons are paranoid with their goal.
How they are able to be doing that because they read a lot and get involved with the job even though they hate the task. I love them who are continuing to do the task even if they hate that task.
Isolate most important work from all works. & do it first
Let’s say I writing blog. To succeed in blogging profession, I have to complete let’s say 30 blogs in a month. For that I have to SEO, write long article, Thumbnail, and many more. Do I get that much of time apart from my regular private job. If I get time, there is tiredness which demotivate me.
In addition to that there is also other task also waiting for me like exercise, family relationship, taking proper food, taking bath and nature call and quality sleep.
So the point is apart from all this activity I have to segregate time and energy for the goal that I myself aspire to win. I know if I will not push myself today and not work for it then somebody may take me out from me.
We all go to office or business or shop, establishment etc. and busy in our day today life in the aspiration that we will the result that we work for. But the many of us don’t able taste success and not able to see the desire they want as a result. So, the here point how to get desired result that one want.
As per the verse of Holy Book Shrimad Bhagwat Gita revels that the only doing work is under our Control. But the result is not in our control. One must try to excel in his/her work. How fine he/she can accomplish the job.one should let go the worry and anxiety about result.
But one must make sure that all the controllable shall be followed while executing then task because that is the only pathway to reach desire result. Desired result need appropriate controllable and right process.
Time blocking is the tool where we book certain time to a particular task and we try to close the task within the stipulated time.
Another toll is time Boxing , In this technique we used to make package of all the related work and confine in a box and make all the action plan and close all the action plan with decided dead line.
Many of us might have heard the technique of MCD popularly used by Mr. Warren Buffet. MCD means “MUST DO”, “CAN DO”, “DON’T DO”. In this technique we categorize the task, if we found the task most important and plays a vital role towards our goal, then MUST DO it.
Then we find time and feel that task is little bit required for our future goal, then we CAN DO it. Next there is some task which is required to be done but it can done later or by delegating someone else, then in that case these task we DON’T DO it, instead make it done by others.
Seek way to execute not to excuse
This is the main thing all are doing, even I am doing that. We all are under tight grip of procrastination. Many of us are crossed these ceiling.
To get rid of procrastination is to take action. In my opinion this is the only instrument to defeat procrastination. When our mind gets busy with certain job and there is second though is shouting in our mind, then procrastination disappear.
In all the realm of life it is pertinent that we face difficulty and fail in the beginning. The journey look like impossible in initial phase. This is the time we have to think positive keep on going no matter what difficulty come to our way. This is the phase where we need to show real enthusiasm about the result.
Our mission to succeed is very important and that is to be fixed in our mind. Mind is the only instrument that continuously play game and defeat us to reach our destination. When it becomes the friend to us and act in align with our purpose magic happen.
Why is to be done just stick to the job and keep on adding positive content in mind. Now I think I am starting write blog post in very late. I am not sure whether I will succeed or not, but still I am trying very hard to get result although I have failed myself in this field.
Making most of the opportunity
Opportunity is like a bowling machine. In life we are continuously come across with opportunities. The days pass by and experience we accumulate by facing difficulties we become more self-assured to utilize opportunities. In many cases we lose opportunities due to various reason.
The impact retains in our mind like as we are unsuccessful in life permanently. Here is the game we need to understand that opportunities are continuously pop up in our way, we as a fighter have to grab those opportunities by utilizing our knowledge, learnings, experiences.
Knowledge is the power as we must us believe. I am not only saying bookish knowledge but also, we bear knowledge in various ways. Every person must be life learned person because insight what we are learning from our circumstances and experiences helps us various ways like decision making, ethical dilemma, helping sense, social impact etc.
When an opportunity appears in front of us, we become curious about various outcomes of it. We examine the pros & cons of the consequences if we put our energy and emotion to get successful. What are the emotions retaining with us as per our knowledge after achieving outcome.
After analyzing all aspects of we are starting procrastination. This over-thinking & side effect lead us undo required task and effort to achieve desired results.
So here the point is GROWTH MINDSET, In this kind of mindset grabbing opportunity is must to attempt if the opportunity is swept away from hand then there is no big deal, it will automatically come to the normal state of mind and ready itself for the next opportunity.
Your success is not yours alone.
In my experience I have learned to be humble and posses a soothing behavior is the best crown that I ever wear. In our journey we are the one who decides to act as per our choice however many other living and non-living organisms are utilized to make it successful.
We alone cannot make it happen. To reach the end point we took support of others, directly or indirectly, by paying or free. Someone and some point of life has the role to shape your future.
Many of competitors are born with gold spoon. In this comparison it is obviously true that we spent a hard way to reach that level of success by utilizing enormous amount of time and energy. That is how it is, and that thing is appreciated for all of us.
But that does not mean lock is the sole owner of our success. In this journey also somebody also guided us, helped us.
Mostly our family plays a vital role in our journey, they sacrifices their happiness and joy in their part for us, mostly for our dream. Actually, they find it alluring when they visualize our dream and action plan. And that mind set help them to come to front and help us to achieve the goal that we set for us.
Hence in GROWTH MINDSET is bear humbleness. It is an attitude help us to give credit to others by praising and quoting their name and contribution after achievement. Most importantly help us refrain from unnecessary arguments and egoistic consequences.
A journey well begin is half done.
Well, we are acting only to get succeed in life. We with our all zeal and passion take action to start the work but we forget to cross the finish line when difficulty arises in our way. It is as much important and necessary to cross the finishing line no matter how much adversity come our way.
Even though in many instances it is found that after crossing the final limit we have face the failure due to poor quality, time gap, it may be various reason. We must not be disheartened by the consequences, essentially only taking, and doing action is in our control. Or only focus should be on the task, specifically quality work.
Before we are entering into any kind of job, we must have visualized the end result and final touch required to be done. That will give us a clear picture in our mind that till how must extent we must be active and live the get the result.
When we get clear path in our sub conscious state of mind, we strive to complete it. Finish a task is a must attribute of GROWTH MINDSET mentality.
Sense of Accomplishment is the only joy that makes us a beautiful sleep-in night. It’s like the breath reading peace. We can better compare the joy feeling like emptying Urinary bladder and the “owha” feeling is the joy.
Winner is the one who imagine the end point at the time of starting the work. Whatever the task is and no matter how difficult the task maty be they stick to the job and never stop doing until it completed.
Purpose is the key to success.
This word, I believe must aim for everyone to get ahead in life. Not in the life of a person but also in the growth of nation, expansion of Economy, in shot in every aspect of mankind.
We must have a purpose to wake in the morning and get going in the whole day till taking sleep. Purpose is the only fuel which keep on running the mental engine to strive the achievement. It is like the book which keep on motivate and helps our mind to find a way.
The main objective is to find happiness till we die. We all find happiness knowingly or unknowingly. Many of us find it in material, many of us find it in spiritual, many of us find it in work. So, the best way doing the work is enjoying while doing.
The one who finding joy in the work, when he/she facing challenge and adversity in the middle of the road and keep on continuing to the end part the work.
When we start earning happiness in our work, we generally neither bother about the struggle, nor we matter about the result. That is why a valid purpose shall be knot behind every task. Our every move shall be dedicated to that supreme positive purpose which each time pinching that we are not done yet, the best is yet to come.
The way we live our life in the world of fake and tout, without any purpose, aim and goal. We do not know what we will achieve after doing it. we don’t even realize whether we are doing the right thing or not.
We don’t know where to ends and how it will impact to our surrounding and to the coming generations. What is the good or bad effect to our nature. To our nation, to the environment. BY knowing this fundamental knowledge will help us to crate a purpose in life and the sense of purpose help to acquire happiness while doing.
The mindset carries a purpose, though it failed many times, it will bounce back and start again in a new way to attain the result. In other way Purpose attains a sense of oneness inside the work and in the process, it enjoys the most. GROWTH MINDSET bears a purpose no to show others but to gain happiness within.
Conclusion
At the end we can say, in realm of life we must show GROWTH MINDSET. Whatever the real situation may be GROWTH MINDSET will help us to face the challenges with endurance and help us to figure out the possibilities instead of dwelling on the problem.
In every sphere of life, we need to portray our inner and actual potential to achieve happiness.
To live a peaceful and happy life we have the courage to execute certain by taking certain amount of risk. GROWTH MINDSET helps to face those struggles with clear goal in mind and strive to get the best out of our inner soul.
Life typically runs in up and down wave manner. Even if we enjoy the taste of success still, we have the fear of loosing it. GROWTH MINDSET helps to free from all the materialistic ego and audacity and make humble and sober to let us keep going ahead in life.
GROWTH MINDSET always keeps remind that we are so small and neglected in comparison to the vast and giant Universe which is the creation of almighty and supreme creator and our contribution to this beautiful world may countless in comparison to the history of mankind and other creature.
Ultimately our objective is to effective and positive contribution to this beautiful nature with an expectation of make this world better for the next generation.
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